I'd like to discuss the topic of men disengaging from society. Lately, I've come across numerous stories, vloggers, and social media influencers addressing this issue. It seems that men are choosing to go their own way and pursue their own interests, deviating from the traditional expectations placed upon them.  What many pf these influencers found online don't do is talk about the bio-chemical and lifestyle reasons as to why they make the decisions they do rather than talking only about the macro-level.

Depending on who you ask, this trend is either a significant concern or even seen as the downfall of Western Civilization. Many individuals are genuinely worried about men checking out of society. As I delved deeper into my research and watched various videos, I had a realization - I am one of these men that everyone is so concerned about. I have indeed detached myself from the norms of society. So, I thought to myself, "Tim, you should make a video discussing this because they are talking about you." Now, the first thing I want to express, ladies and gentlemen, is that I believe I am not alone in this experience. I believe many men would agree with me on this matter. Right now, I must admit, I'm feeling a bit confused.

Gender confusion: not only psychological?

Have you ever observed how certain individuals, as they age, start exhibiting traits typically associated with the opposite gender? It's fascinating to witness men developing breasts and shedding tears during movies, while women experience baldness and the growth of facial hair. Additionally, have you ever pondered over the transformations in thoughts and behaviors that occur when individuals undergo hormone therapy to transition genders? The impact of male and female hormones on the brain's structure and activity is truly profound. The brain is remarkably adaptable and can undergo significant changes under the influence of hormonal fluctuations. Scientists first delved into this realm when they examined brain scans of individuals undergoing hormone therapy to transition genders.

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A diet high in sugar and carbohydrates, combined with a sedentary lifestyle, can lead to a condition known as insulin resistance or pre-diabetes. This condition has interesting effects on reproductive hormones, causing them to mimic those of the opposite gender. In women, insulin resistance can result in an increase in testosterone levels, leading to hair loss on the head and excessive hair growth on the face. Additionally, a woman's voice may deepen. Younger women may also develop polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) and experience difficulties with fertility. On the other hand, men with insulin resistance may experience estrogen dominance. This means that an enzyme is activated, converting testosterone into estrogen.

Unfortunately, men who try to correct this disorder by taking testosterone hormones may face unintended consequences. They may develop breasts and wider hips, find themselves tearing up during movies and commercials, and notice a softening of their skin. Erectile dysfunction may also become a concern. Interestingly, both men and women who experience the gender-altering effects of insulin resistance may also undergo changes in brain structure and activity. This can lead to adopting behaviors typically associated with the opposite sex.

Societal roles being changed

As a man, I find myself perplexed by society's expectations for me. It seems that many men are becoming hesitant and unsure about their roles. In the past, there was a clear understanding of how a man should behave according to societal norms. Even if you didn't necessarily agree with those norms, you knew what they were. A man was expected to be the breadwinner, the protector, and the head of the household. While you may have had your own reservations about these expectations, you understood that society would view you as a "real man" if you fulfilled these roles. However, times have changed, and I don't necessarily see that as a negative thing. The traditional roles have started to fade away. For instance, the idea of the man being the sole breadwinner has shifted. In the past 20 to 30 years, economic circumstances have forced everyone to contribute financially and share the responsibility of paying the bills.

As a man, if your identity is tied to being the provider, it can be a big psychological blow when that role is no longer necessary. Nowadays, everyone is bringing home the bacon, even the kids when they reach a certain age and need to get a job to help pay the bills. The traditional ideal of the man as the breadwinner has faded away, and the man as the protector has also been challenged by movements where women assert their independence and don't need anyone to protect them. While there's nothing wrong with this, it can be difficult for men who were brought up to believe that they should be the protector when the group they were supposed to protect says they don't need it. However, I personally believe that in a relationship, both partners should be equal and there should be no talk of who's in charge. We should be equal partners in everything we do.

Society has become extremely toxic in many ways and not only psychological

This concept gradually became more accepted, so there are all these societal expectations that men were taught to believe were their responsibilities, but that started to shift. However, it can get confusing because as men, we began to question these beliefs and adapt to the changing times. We realized that these roles don't have to be strictly defined by gender; they can apply to anyone. Let's switch things up because nobody wants to be left behind. So, in general, men started to change their perspectives on what it means to be a man. But recently, there has been a shift back to traditional gender roles. Now, there are many women who express the need for a man to take care of them, to be a high-value provider, or to earn a six-figure income. If a man can't fulfill these expectations, he is deemed not a "real" man. It's important to acknowledge that the world can be dangerous, and everyone needs a protector, regardless of gender.

This is the confusing propaganda that misleads us all

There's no such thing as a "balanced diet" & nutrition isn't merely food. Why is that? It's because we're all individuals. Orthomolecular nutrition is the individualized analysis application of the substances within the food which our bodies often do not obtain enough of and are often blocked by antagonists.

The situation is quite similar when it comes to women. We gave them advice on how to make changes in their lives, and they followed it diligently. However, now it seems like there are no good women left. I want to clarify that I'm not criticizing men or women here. It's just that society is going through a strange phase, and nobody really knows what they should be doing. It's absolutely crazy. Moreover, from a man's perspective, there are a lot of expectations placed on us. We were told to start a family and have kids, but as time goes on, we realize that if things don't work out perfectly, we're in trouble. If we get divorced, we end up paying alimony. If we have children and then separate, we're stuck paying child support. So, not only are we questioning whether we should still pursue these things, but also if we do, there are potential consequences. It's a complicated situation.

The situation is quite similar when it comes to women. We gave them advice on how to make changes in their lives, and they followed it diligently. However, now it seems like there are no good women left. I want to clarify that I'm not criticizing men or women here. It's just that society is going through a strange phase, and nobody really knows what they should be doing. It's absolutely crazy. Moreover, from a man's perspective, there are a lot of expectations placed on us. We were told to start a family and have kids, but as time goes on, we realize that if things don't work out perfectly, we're in trouble. If we get divorced, we end up paying alimony. If we have children and then separate, we're stuck paying child support. So, not only are we questioning whether we should still pursue these things, but also if we do, there are potential consequences. It's a complicated situation.

Double standards galore

Not to mention, even if I figure out how much I should invest in it, if something goes wrong, I'm in trouble. It makes me question why I should even bother. Many men and women are asking themselves the same thing. It's hard to meet new people and form relationships when you're stuck in your routine. Where are you supposed to meet someone? It's frustrating, so many people just give up and stop trying. They're tired. Personally, I'm done with all this. Things that used to be easier are now more complicated. Why should I put myself out there? What's the point? And even if I do, someone will criticize me for doing it wrong. On the work front, many people are saying that men are no longer interested in working. Millions of men are unemployed. I believe that more and more people, especially the younger generation, are realizing that the traditional career path doesn't always work out. It's just not for everyone. Some people are simply not interested in working like that anymore. Instead, they are exploring online work, starting their own businesses, or hopping from one job to another. Times have changed, and people are adapting to new ways of working.

Not to mention, even if I figure out how much I should invest in it, if something goes wrong, I'm in trouble. It makes me question why I should even bother. Many men and women are asking themselves the same thing. It's hard to meet new people and form relationships when you're stuck in your routine. Where are you supposed to meet someone? It's frustrating, so many people just give up and stop trying. They're tired. Personally, I'm done with all this. Things that used to be easier are now more complicated. Why should I put myself out there? What's the point? And even if I do, someone will criticize me for doing it wrong. On the work front, many people are saying that men are no longer interested in working. Millions of men are unemployed. I believe that more and more people, especially the younger generation, are realizing that the traditional career path doesn't always work out. It's just not for everyone. Some people are simply not interested in working like that anymore. Instead, they are exploring online work, starting their own businesses, or hopping from one job to another. Times have changed, and people are adapting to new ways of working.

I'm planning to do that, and here's what I'm seeking from you: can you fulfill that role? Can you embody those qualities? Because if we look at society, there are too many mixed signals, making it all very confusing. And then, when you add social media into the equation, anyone, including myself, can come on here and say whatever they want. It becomes difficult to know who to listen to, who to trust, and who to believe. I believe that the answer lies within ourselves or within our family unit. We need to figure out what we should do and what is necessary for us. We can no longer simply say, "As a man, I will do this," or "As a woman, I will do that." The concept of gender is currently quite perplexing.

Dropping societal norms for men just as they did for women

I don't hold anyone responsible for being who they are, regardless of gender. I am simply myself, you know what I mean? It's not right for someone to come and say, "A real man doesn't do that," because I'm not a man. And it's not right for someone to say, "A real woman doesn't do that," because I'm not a woman. I just want to be left alone, out of all this. I believe in respect, respect for my friends and all those people out there. Hey, you know me, they think they have it all figured out, but I think we need to figure it out for ourselves. Maybe one day, gender roles will become clear again and we can all understand what is expected of us. However, we don't live in those times anymore. I also believe it's perfectly fine to just do your own thing, you know what I mean? There's nothing that says you have to conform to society's expectations. Live your life the way you want, as long as you're happy and your partner, family, and friends are happy too.

We have the freedom to determine our own behavior as long as we don't harm anyone or break the law. No one has the right to dictate how we should live our lives. Personally, I'm Tim, and all I want is to be able to look at myself in the mirror and say that I'm a good person. I strive to do what I need to do and take care of my responsibilities. Beyond that, I don't really care about other people's opinions of me or whether they think I'm a real man or not. I'm just being myself and trying to live my life in the best way possible, doing what I love and being with the people I care about. These are my thoughts, and I would love to hear your comments and views on this topic. Feel free to discuss anything else related to this in the comment box below. I know many people are dealing with similar issues, and I may have missed some points or been wrong about certain things. So, let's start a discussion if you have the time and inclination. I appreciate each and every one of you. Talk to you later!